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Recession Sees More Requests To Lower Child Support

By Gabriel Roxas

MCCRACKEN COUNTY, KY - Deadbeat dads are one thing, but in today's economy, some parents are just struggling to keep up with child support payments that used to be routine.  Family courts are reporting a surge in cases of child support modification requests.

A judge will look for a past routine of holding a job and a pattern of making regular payments.  If a parent's circumstances change suddenly, their request has a better chance of seeming to be in good faith, but it's something that is becoming a far more common call to make.

John Riggi didn't want to ask for a reduction in his child support payments, but after he lost his job, he saw little choice.  "I want to see them happy and have the things that they deserve and need, but in the same sense, I couldn't still pay that amount and keep my head above water," Riggi said.

In a separate case, Michelle Sharp says the weak economy made her ask for an increase in child support payments for her daughter.  "It was difficult.  I felt weird even asking for an increase because I know how tough the economy is and I knew that he would probably be experiencing the same problems that we were," Sharp said.

McCracken County Family Court Judge Cynthia Sanderson is one of the people who has to decide whether a change in a child support agreement is appropriate, and she's seeing a lot more requests lately.  "It gets kind of complicated because the folks that have never wanted to support their children are getting the benefit of the bad economy," Sanderson said.

Nonetheless, Judge Sanderson believes most parents want to make their child support payments, and she's seeing a dramatic rise in what she considers legitimate needs to reduce payments because of a loss of income.  In John Riggi's case, he says his new agreement is only meant to be temporary.  "I'll get back on my feet and get back to where I need to be.  It'll be back, hopefully with the economy getting a little better, everything will be back to the way it was," Riggi said.

In the meantime, he urges others in his situation to keep the relationship between the parents as positive as possible, if only for the sake of the children.  Some attorneys report cases in which one parent will offer to take custody of a child instead of paying child support.  They stress custody and child support are two very separate issues and should not be considered interchangeable.
 

Friday, Nov 6 at 7:31 PM anonymous wrote ...

continued from the other one...so i have to work, which is not a problem,because they are my kids too, i helped make them, but it just makes me so mad when i hear mothers and fathers say that child support is to be used for clothes and things like that...i have my court documents showing what i could use the money for.so i just wished everyone would get off everyone's backs.both parents are struggling right now so go easy on one another and don't increase or decrease your payments, work together

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Friday, Nov 6 at 7:27 PM anonymous wrote ...

I have been receiving my child support for 11 years and 9 years and i have never tried to have it increased. My child support is only $35 a week and $73 a week.I talked to the judge who set my child support and asked him if i had to use it on certain things and he told me whatever the child needed like,clothes, shoes, school, medical,car payments,car insurance, house payment, and utilities, because i have to have all that to take of that kids,everybody does.Well that ain't enough to pay all that

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Friday, Nov 6 at 7:48 AM Lisa wrote ...

But please remember that a portion of the support is set aside for shelter, utilities, and transportation...those are the children's needs as well. I should be an equal effort between both parents and the noncustodial parent should not be responsible for paying the way of the custodial parent.

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Friday, Nov 6 at 7:42 AM Lisa wrote ...

Homer I do not know anyone who either pays or receives $1800 a month for one child. I have 4 children and I am not ordered to receive that much per month...and we won't mention the portion of that amount that I actually receive. I totally agree that the support should be used ONLY for the children. It ticks me off when I see noncustodial parents paying ungodly amount and little or none is being spent on the children.

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 3:26 PM Anonymous wrote ...

and in 16 years, I have not had one raise, not one, and my child suppport was based on minimum wage for back then, I have been drawing a measly $200.00 a month, and with the economy being the way it is. I needed more help. After getting my increase, he chose to quit a job making $12.00 an hour and go to flipping burgers, so that he wouldn't have to pay. He's a deatbeat, and now I'm only getting 1/3 of my childsupport.

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 3:22 PM michelle sharp wrote ...

e a child, i shouldn't have to remind everyone, it infuriates me when people don't try and understand that child support is for the child, if he didn't want the child I have he shouldn't have the child with me. Then several years after I had her, I remarried giving her father the opportunity to terminate his rights, and to let my husband adopt her and he chose not to do that, he wanted her both times, therfore I shouldn't have to be the only one responsible for her upkeep. she's 16 years old

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 3:19 PM Michelle Sharp wrote ...

Thank you lisa, I have for years been the sole provider for my daughter, I have taken care of everything, when it came to diapers, wipes, formula, baby food, clothes, household stuff, halloween, christmas, thanksgiving, birthdays, school things, school supplies, field trips, dances, school fees, medicine, doctor bills, copays, eye doctors, visine, school clothes, bras, underwear, socks, shoes, dentist, food, makeup, toys, countless other things, everyone all too well knows how hard it is to rais

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 2:21 PM Anonymous wrote ...

i have been paying my support for the last 7 yrs , my kidds come over and the mom doesnt buy them nothing i mean the shoes the cloths , ohhh i thought that was to be used for that . not there money ??? . its all up to me all i am is a dinner check so she doesnt have to work at all . i think it should be fare ..... mcdonalds is always hiring !~!!!!!!!. some of the dead beat moms should have to there part as well as the dad . now im not talking about the moms that are doing there job.

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 12:56 PM Tara Benton,KY wrote ...

Being a mother of 3 I think it is an outrage for anyone to say that a parent is unfit due to there income level. Sometimes life just happens. Apperently you dont have any children. I guess only the rich should have kids.

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 11:51 AM homer stinx wrote ...

" If the parent that has custody cannot provide what is needed for the child then they are not fit to have custody of the child" homer well HOMER the absent parent needs to fill in the gaps they helped make the child too. youre one of those men who wants joint custody so you dont have to pay a dime arent you.

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 11:48 AM Anonymous wrote ...

two people are married, working, children, all income goes into the bank to pay the bills.....divorce, custody, child support, now only a percentage of the non custodial income is in the bank for bills.....children are not a monthly bill we pay each month, they are a gift that we should not place a price tag on by child support.....both parties should equally be responsible for all living expenses til child is grown.

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 10:10 AM AG wrote ...

i hate this, my husband's ex-wife is asking for a reduction and she only pays on minimum wage and is 2 years behind. she never even tried to pay in the first place. $214 a month on three kids, they does not even buy their groceries, and we carry their insurance, she is not even responsible for that and that cost $300 a month or more. i understand for those sho want to take care of their kids, but for the deadbeats it is just another way out!!

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 8:12 AM Lisa wrote ...

This infuriates me! The custodial parent is most likely having the same finacial problems as the custodial parent; however, we do not have the OPTION to lower our payments. Those kids still have to eat, go to the doctor, have clothing and other necessities, and be driven all over the county for various school activities. We, as custodial parents, do not have the option of saying "we just can't do it this week." Why should noncustodial parents have that privelege?

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 2:42 AM homer wrote ...

account and that the support go to nothing but that child for shoes, clothing,medical, and anything extra that the child would require.Too many times the parent receiving the child support includes it for there everyday to day living.I also know that it does not take 1800.00 a mont to support a child. that would be 900 for each parent. think about it!

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Thursday, Nov 5 at 2:37 AM Homer wrote ...

this really is a sign that the economy is bouncing back hmm! I have to disagree with the judge on this one. If the parent that has custody cannot provide what is needed for the child then they are not fit to have custody of the child. Therefore it should not be up to the parent paying child support to pay more because there exspouse is not holding up there previous court rulings.On the other hand most parents are paying way too much for child support.I think child support should be set up in a

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