I have 2 sons that never had a grandaddy since theirs passed away when I was 7 months pregnant with the youngest and the oldest was only 16 months old. They never really had a "Daddy" either and Bobby stepped in and became "Daddy" to my 15 year old and 17 year old sons within a few months. He has been there through everything and loves them with all of his heart. He adores my youngest son's baby as his own grandson and does not like it when someone says he is not his. I lost my daddy to suicide when I was 7 months pregnant and I know what it is like to love someone like I did my daddy and this man deserves a very big hug since I was diagnosed with Lupus also 4 months after we were married. He has never faultered. He is older now and has worked hard for the past 48 years and needs to slow down but he doesn't. He feels as if he still needs to take care of everyone even though the boys are now 23 and 25 and have lives of their owns. When my oldest graduated high school, the paper read "Son of Bobby and Trudy Warren" This is stepdad but to the boys he is Dad. He has 3 children of his own and 6 grandchildren and loves every one of them with all he has. To take over 2 teen boys and make them the men they are today is a great accomplishment. To love me even after the Lupus diagnosis and my heart attack is why I consider him a special Valentine.